Questions for 2011

So another year has past and yes we are all going to be thinking of what the new year will bring and our resolutions to succeed in the new year but what have you learned this past year? What did we lack (willpower), or what did we really wish we had been doing (starting our own business perhaps)?
These where questions that came to my mind so that I could make goals for 2011. Although I still haven't made concrete goals, I wanted to get input from others out there. Now in thinking about my life I started to think about other mothers as well, and what are some similarities. Then I thought how we all need to get out of the house sometimes, meet other women.
I have heard from many mothers who want a place to socialize with other mothers, not just online. So I ask would you pay at least 10-20 a month to be part of an organization of mothers? An organization that who get together for educational seminars and of course also fun activities, and would provide you with a host of information for everything in your area, like things to do with your kids, or daycare availability and recommendations?  Also if you are anything like me though, I don't want this just to be another playgroup opportunity where all we talk about is the kids, but rather somewhere to go for a special wine tasting event and harp about life or about our partners (not that I do that). Now I really need everyone's opinion on this, think about the pros and cons for you, would you join something like this?